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About Mary Willow

Founder, author, mentor

After 35 years of working as a nurse, midwife and early childhood teacher I saw a great need for a one-on-one service to provide education and mentoring for parents. In response, I founded a parent support service, Plum Parenting, and since 2007 have developed unique skills and methods which are proving to be enormously helpful to parents, whānau/extended family, caregivers, teachers and all professionals in the field of child support. 

These 20 years of experience have culminated in my book Breaking Through - How to Rescue Childhood and Heal the Parent-Child Relationship, to be released on June 1st 2026 by Bateman Books New Zealand.

Updates will be published to this website and the Plum Parenting Facebook and Instagram pages.

Experience & qualifications

  • Parent Mentoring since 2007

  • Lecturing on Child Development and Parenting Topics

  • Teaching in Kindergartens and Early Childhood Programs

  • Facilitating Playgroups

  • Co-ordinating Parent Education Programs

  • Teaching Prenatal Programs

  • Midwifery: involved in legalising midwifery in Canada and creating a pioneering community midwifery service

  • General Nursing in New Zealand, Australia, United Kingdom, and Canada.

  • Management of Therapeutic and Medical Clinics

  • Parenting